It isn't enough falling a victim of circumstance, rather taking it too personal.The fact that to me it happened, doesn't guarantee redirecting; whining that it should have been somebody else all together.
Selfishness gets better side of us when we claim "why me?". Drains, it does to just scream out at calamities and supreme being why me. otherwise whom did you want befall the calamity anyway?just take it sacrificially and humble when misfortunes hit hard on you sirring our stomachs and accelerating the nervous.we may be deserving consequently or may be paying other people's sins.
Stop whining, start acting.solve the problem. accept however impossible it may seem. take you time . it brings best and faster healing however gradual it seems.
It beats logic times when while being corrected it becomes personal .And you hear,why did you pick up on me? you are not caring an don't see any good in me! Or maybe you hate me! I never did it, i swear!
C'mon.at times, it takes step of faith to correct someone. mostly smart friend want a better you-although not needfully a perfectionist , to make you know that you slipped.You ain't a victim! you being made better.
